I may be a young lady who enjoys getting dolled up, wears high heels and will quickly slap on some makeup and lipstick before running out to the grocery store. But it doesn't mean I don't enjoy going "au natural!"
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| Taken at this very moment, just for you! : P |
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| 2010 Reaper Awards |
There's nothing wrong with being glamorous, prissy and getting all fancy for no particular reason... Just as there's nothing wrong with going out in the bare flesh for a special occasion! Some people are puzzled by my lack of fitting into a particular label. "Is she a spoiled, glamour doll? Or is she a tough nature chick?" Why not both? I've never been one to fit into any particular label, nor do I think anybody should.
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| 2005 |
How I dress and how I choose to present myself are based solely on how I feel in the moment and what I'm in the mood to wear and see myself as. It has absolutely nothing to do with what other people think of me, or how I want them to think of me. It's just how I feel!
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| May 2011 with my little niece Nora |
Who cares what anyone else thinks? It's my life and I'll spend every day making myself the person I want to be, or see myself as. I might feel bare and naked one day and the next I feel like playing with all of my makeup! It's just what I feel like doing. Though I may have TONS of super dolled up makeup photos with my hair curled and everything's beautiful, I also find myself to be my most beautiful when I have nothing on at all... I think it's important for all of us to feel that way.
It's so silly how men think that women dress for them! Whenever a man tells me about why he thinks I'm dressed a certain way, I'm thinking... "You can't be serious?"
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| Yes... It was a bit chilly... But guess what?! I actually have nipples! |
I dress for myself and that is that. Why else should I want to wear a tight dress and high heels? For a man? For a woman? No boys... I know this is very hard for you to believe, but that simply isn't so.
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| "I don't know about you Miss Kitty, but I'm feeling so much yummier...." |
So why do I dress up in a sexual way? Because I am proud of my body and I am proud of my sexuality! I'm not "asking" for anything! I'm simply enjoying myself ; ) Ladies... there is nothing wrong with that.
When I wear a skirt, I wear it because It's warm outside or because I want to feel free and open or because simply... it's just plain cute!
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| Betsey Johnson knows how to give my girls the support they need! |
It is NOT however an invitation for anyone to come on to me, pawing at me and assume that I'm some horny slut... my goodness... SO WHAT if you can see my cleavage?!
My breasts are beautiful, spectacular, soft and most of all... they're mine : ) NOT YOURS... Don't blame me if you can't control yourself because you see a nice rack in the front and a cute booty in the back... Most men have the ability to do so, why not you? So you keep your filthy hands to yourself!
For those that think I'd be better off covering myself up... You need to spend a day in my body. I get just as much of attention when I where baggy jeans and a sweatshirt as I do when I'm wearing a mini skirt and lipstick. It has nothing to do with what you're wearing, it's only perceived that way... Trust me...
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From Marilyn Monroe to Michelle Rodriguez...
The female body is a beautiful work of art no matter what shape or size. |
Fashion, makeup, shoes... It's all about expressing yourself and how you feel. A woman should never have to defend what she's wearing. (Unless it's roadkill... There's just no excuse for wearing fur.)
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| Michael Davis and Danny Griffith on my 21st Birthday. (You can touch me only if I give you permission) |
Same goes to men! Gay or straight! I think men should be allowed to wear skirts and dresses or whatever they like without judgment! Why should a man in a dress be criticized? Unfair, I say... Men should be able to show their appreciation for their own bodies as well. Go-on wearing your tight shirts... I'm not complaining... Anyone else that does is simply jealous or uncomfortable with themselves. So men, whether you're gay, straight, bi or anything in between, you have my support in being yourselves and wearing whatever you want :)
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| Saturn Awards 2011 |
Did you know? There are actually people out there who will think less of a girl if she makes a funny face? Shocking... I know... but It's true! It's completely absurd, but they're out there nonetheless... I have come across quite a few people who just become turned off by me because I'm someone who has no problem making fun of myself and doing wacky, stupid things like making ridiculous faces!
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| This is my scrinchie-pouty-bunnie face. |
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| Making my doggie face. |
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| Sitting on the lawn in front of the Eiffel Tower in Paris... <3 |
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| Sleeping upright during my super drugged up tonsillectomy recovery |
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| During my, hopefully last, tonsillitis infection! |
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| What? ...I enjoy eating a tasty pie first thing in the morning, don't you? |
Well, all I can say is... good riddance! If you're the type of person that finds me less attractive because I'm having a funny moment, making my "catfish" face or because I do something that makes me "less perfect" then I really don't have room for you in my life... I honestly don't... You would be a much happier person if you freed yourself of such superficiality.
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| Jake and Shannon. Cool peeps that think I'm beautiful no matter what I look like. |
Whether I feel like roughing it, being a rock star, going natural or dressing like a Barbie doll is my own business! The number one person we should be dressing for is ourselves!
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| The Tim Burton Me |
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| The Barbie Me |
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| The Grunge Me |
Yes, I spent all this time on myself for YOUR approval... People are so baffling. The only approval we really want is from ourselves! That's where "self confidence" truly comes from anyways.
I don't care what you look like or how you like to dress. Do what makes you happy! As long as you're happy with the way that you look and you truly love yourself, it will show and radiate from the inside out.
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| No make up! But how can you not radiate beauty when you're in Rome... <3 |
It doesn't matter how tiny, how fit, how pretty you are on the outside, none of that matters if you don't feel it on the inside. Inner beauty trumps all. I've never felt more beautiful in my entire life than I have on the inside... Taking good care of your body and loving yourself is the key to true beauty.
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| Puppy love! |
*Stockings & Stitches*
Emma Bunnie
How can there be no comments? You speak from the heart and you speak the truth. I enjoyed meeting you and shannon both.
ReplyDeleteThis could be no further from the truth, especially about the way men think or perceive women in their own minds.
I find you to be a very beautiful woman with or without makeup because that is what you express in your actions. Even sleeping upright or eating my cheesecake in the morning lol.
Live your life and love those in it.
Jerry